Role Models.

Recently I bought an Essence magazine. Now if you know me, you know that I don't buy magazines. But this one caught my eye more than the others. There is a letter(in this month's edition) from Michelle Obama to the readers. Mrs. Obama, is my first role model outside of women I actually know. Next month i'll be honored with an award for my work in the field of girls education. The theme, "Lifting as we climb," really hasn't settled in until lately. Reading both the letter and receiving this award has left me in a contemplative state about role models that I have had throughout my life. Starting with my mom and going down the list to women who have been 'lifting me as I climb', all have made an impact on my life. My attitude and outlook on life stems from the support these women have given me, imparting on me the knowledge and confidence to conquer whatever lies in my way. These women have shown me how to work hard for what you want and to not stop until you get it. I have a hard time with the idea of getting an award for work that i'm passionate about, it is even harder knowing that there are plenty of women out there that may be more deserving of this award. I know with the acceptance of this award, I am assuming the responsibility of 'lifting others as they climb' . I can't force someone else to be a role model. I can't force someone to want to set a good example for those coming behind them, but I can lead by example. Given what I have been given in role models(there are many), it is because of them that I know I can wake up everyday and tell myself something that I love about myself. I'm strong and confident(perhaps overly confident). I no longer feel the need to be validated by others, I tell myself I am beautiful everday because I can't wait for someone else to tell me(that may leave me waiting). I take advantage of all opportunities presented and live life to the fullest. I set goals and meet them. I love openly. I listen before I speak. I'm observant and honest. Calm and responsible. Patient and kind. I am all of the above because of my role models and if I can instill these values, this confidence, and this love for self, in someone else, then I know have passed on what I have been given.